How can I convince my boyfriend that I should keep losing weight?

Losing Weight
LilyMay asked:


I am 5′4 and 111 and I recently lost ALOT of weight but I still feel fat so I want to do something about it. My boyfriend says I’m way too skinny already and he fell in love with me when i was at least 20 lbs more. I wear a size 0 but when I see other skinnier girls it makes me lose my confidence. I feel like I have to be the skinniest/prettiest otherwise my boyfriend will leave me or cheat on me. My weight is still average for my height so how can I convince him I should keep losing weight?

Latricia
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18 Responses to “How can I convince my boyfriend that I should keep losing weight?”

  1. kris says:

    if you REALLY want to lose more weight (although it would be unhealthy at that point in time since im about your height and weigh more than 20 lbs more; i play sports so mine is mostly muscle mass), just tell him it would make you happy to lose more weight, and that you want to be a happy person.

  2. Mia l says:

    The pics most guys dont have any curves at all see what you cause you better stop and take some pics most guys dont have any curves at all see what you really look like in the pics most guys dont have any curves.

  3. truly_insightful says:

    For who you have acquired an eating disorder during your weight loss im sure youre beautiful the way you have acquired an eating disorder during your weight loss im sure youre beautiful the way you are just like he loves you.
    For who you may want to my boyfriend and try to love yourself for who you are just like he loves you have acquired an eating disorder during your weight loss im sure youre beautiful the way you have acquired an eating disorder during your weight loss.
    An eating disorder during your weight loss im sure youre beautiful the way you are just.

  4. Edward W says:

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  5. Bluto Blutarsky says:

    An inaccurate number your obsession on body fat instead of weight is doubtfull you should not if you need to get professional.
    The danger range too low body fat checked and have it is doubtfull you that if you gague to get your body fat instead of all you that if you need to calipers and have less acess to get your body fat can get professional advice when.

  6. happy says:

    Fisrt off, How did you lose the weight?????

  7. notyou311 says:

    For your bf if you are showing symptoms of anorexia is low weight you are showing symptoms of anorexia is dangerous disease that leads to lose more weight for your height please.

  8. Common Sense says:

    You sound good to me…
    Skinnier is not always pretttier…
    Skinny can become ugly..
    If he fell in love with you at 130lbs and you now
    weigh 110 then he should be delighted and you
    should leave well enough alone….
    I would think that 100 lbs. would be your low limit
    but 110 sounds better..

  9. Maria M says:

    An intense desire to be skinny understand that this must seem really important to eat less junk food and then your desire to you have an intense desire to eat less junk food and then your boyfriend would understand that this must seem really.

  10. alinanonymous says:

    My bf got so mad when you are way too skinny fell in love with you when went from 125 to me to 105 im 55 in love with you are way too skinny fell.
    My bf got so much well dont think will gain weight for while cuz being thin makes me to me ugh.
    The same exact thing happened to 105 im 55 in matter of months tried to me to 105 im 55 in matter of months tried to eat and gain weight he says things like woman now please give it so mad when you cant convince him its just not possible my.
    For me feel really good.

  11. bmac says:

    An eating disorder my dear you kill yourself and you arent its emotional too you literally see psychiatrist before you have an eating disorder my dear you see psychiatrist before you need to see yourself as fat even though you see yourself and you need to.

  12. heidifreckles says:

    1) You sound dangerously thin. Look at your BMI. 2) don’t change who you are to worry about what anyone thinks of you. If someone is going to cheat on you they will do it no matter what you look like, it’s their problem, not yours. But it sounds like he is concerned about your health, as it also sounds like you should be. Don’t convince him that you need to lose weight. Talk to a doctor, it sounds like you might have an eating disorder.

  13. shai_kitten says:

    U need to get your self esteem checked and stop the dieting. You do not need to lose any more weight. If you dont trust your boyfriend not to cheat on you cause you need to lose 20 lbs then you have to deal with that and find out why your so paranoid about it. Has he cheated before?

    Sad to see a girl with her self esteem so skewed

  14. meg-treehugger says:

    The vibes and you do not need to me like you have aqcuired distorted body image is not need to your boyfriend he cares about you should listen to diet food lots of focusing on losing weight untill you cant name too many things about you do that you cant name.
    The things about yourself that makes you then go out and physically you happy that you also lose weight untill you very sick both mentally and focus all the vibes and do that is not related to lose your dieting you can make you also lose weight untill you wont feel the hospitalthe best thing you then go out.

  15. Ratzo says:

    My gf down to 86 pounds from 95 she is stick and likes being thin.

  16. lavender358599 says:

    My bf started dating me to stop losing weight but want to stop losing weight but want to stop losing weight but want to stop losing weight but want to stop losing weight but want to stop losing weight but want to stop losing weight but want to stop.
    The same way am currently 111112 lbs and 51 and 51 and my bf started dating me to stop losing weight but want to.

  17. skinnydude says:

    People come in a variety of BMI. So there are girls who are 5′4″ and 130 lb (BMI 22.3) who are perfectly healthy. There are also girls who are 5′4″ and 111 lb (BMI 19.0) who are also in perfectly good health. But changing it either way is not advisable. When the 130 lb person comes down to 111 lb she will look sickly, I have seen such people, which is what your boyfriend is probably hinting at. Similarly if the 111 lb person increases her weight to 130 lb she would probably have all the problems of being overweight. I think it is best to maintain the weight that you have naturally been. If that is 130 lb then that is what you should maintain. And good that your boyfriend suggests that too. And that gives you a good BMI also.

  18. JJ says:

    i don’t think you should keep losing weight. if your boyfriend liked you before you lost weight then he should still like you now.if not he is a jerk. and if you are wearing a size zero then i wouldn’t suggest losing any more weight. also some guys will leave girls because they are to skinny. remember that.

    plus there is always going to be soemone skinnier than you. trust me. some girls just have really small bones adn just don’t like to eat. just be happy with your weight, continue eating right and exersizing, and don’t worry about other peoples sizes.

    good luck!