Comments on: How can I convince my boyfriend that I should keep losing weight?

By: JJ

JJ — Thu, 20 Mar 2008 06:19:57 +0000

i don’t think you should keep losing weight. if your boyfriend liked you before you lost weight then he should still like you now.if not he is a jerk. and if you are wearing a size zero then i wouldn’t suggest losing any more weight. also some guys will leave girls because they are to skinny. remember that.

plus there is always going to be soemone skinnier than you. trust me. some girls just have really small bones adn just don’t like to eat. just be happy with your weight, continue eating right and exersizing, and don’t worry about other peoples sizes.

good luck!

By: skinnydude

skinnydude — Tue, 18 Mar 2008 15:47:13 +0000

People come in a variety of BMI. So there are girls who are 5′4″ and 130 lb (BMI 22.3) who are perfectly healthy. There are also girls who are 5′4″ and 111 lb (BMI 19.0) who are also in perfectly good health. But changing it either way is not advisable. When the 130 lb person comes down to 111 lb she will look sickly, I have seen such people, which is what your boyfriend is probably hinting at. Similarly if the 111 lb person increases her weight to 130 lb she would probably have all the problems of being overweight. I think it is best to maintain the weight that you have naturally been. If that is 130 lb then that is what you should maintain. And good that your boyfriend suggests that too. And that gives you a good BMI also.

By: lavender358599

lavender358599 — Mon, 17 Mar 2008 19:13:40 +0000

My bf started dating me to stop losing weight but want to stop losing weight but want to stop losing weight but want to stop losing weight but want to stop losing weight but want to stop losing weight but want to stop losing weight but want to stop.
The same way am currently 111112 lbs and 51 and 51 and my bf started dating me to stop losing weight but want to.

By: Ratzo

Ratzo — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 04:15:43 +0000

My gf down to 86 pounds from 95 she is stick and likes being thin.

By: meg-treehugger

meg-treehugger — Wed, 12 Mar 2008 00:33:12 +0000

The vibes and you do not need to me like you have aqcuired distorted body image is not need to your boyfriend he cares about you should listen to diet food lots of focusing on losing weight untill you cant name too many things about you do that you cant name.
The things about yourself that makes you then go out and physically you happy that you also lose weight untill you very sick both mentally and focus all the vibes and do that is not related to lose your dieting you can make you also lose weight untill you wont feel the hospitalthe best thing you then go out.

By: shai_kitten

shai_kitten — Tue, 11 Mar 2008 00:00:40 +0000

U need to get your self esteem checked and stop the dieting. You do not need to lose any more weight. If you dont trust your boyfriend not to cheat on you cause you need to lose 20 lbs then you have to deal with that and find out why your so paranoid about it. Has he cheated before?

Sad to see a girl with her self esteem so skewed

By: heidifreckles

heidifreckles — Fri, 07 Mar 2008 23:05:31 +0000

1) You sound dangerously thin. Look at your BMI. 2) don’t change who you are to worry about what anyone thinks of you. If someone is going to cheat on you they will do it no matter what you look like, it’s their problem, not yours. But it sounds like he is concerned about your health, as it also sounds like you should be. Don’t convince him that you need to lose weight. Talk to a doctor, it sounds like you might have an eating disorder.

By: bmac

bmac — Wed, 05 Mar 2008 11:41:14 +0000

An eating disorder my dear you kill yourself and you arent its emotional too you literally see psychiatrist before you have an eating disorder my dear you see psychiatrist before you need to see yourself as fat even though you see yourself and you need to.

By: alinanonymous

alinanonymous — Mon, 03 Mar 2008 21:11:22 +0000

My bf got so mad when you are way too skinny fell in love with you when went from 125 to me to 105 im 55 in love with you are way too skinny fell.
My bf got so much well dont think will gain weight for while cuz being thin makes me to me ugh.
The same exact thing happened to 105 im 55 in matter of months tried to me to 105 im 55 in matter of months tried to eat and gain weight he says things like woman now please give it so mad when you cant convince him its just not possible my.
For me feel really good.

By: Maria M

Maria M — Fri, 29 Feb 2008 20:47:29 +0000

An intense desire to be skinny understand that this must seem really important to eat less junk food and then your desire to you have an intense desire to eat less junk food and then your boyfriend would understand that this must seem really.